Here's Why '90 Day Fiance' Fans Think Debbie Did A Bad Job Parenting Colt
Some 90 Day Fiance fans are accusing Colt's mom Debbie of bad parenting. In a lot of how Debbie has been Colt's enabler, for one he is a 34-year-old man with a job but residing together with his mom. While it is not unusual for an adult to live with their folks Debbie and Colt's relationship has a codependency dynamic.
It is not fully truthful to blame Debbie for Colt's apparently inept social skills, however it is easy to see why many 90 Day Fiancé fans do. Colt and Debbie are so depending on one every other that they even percentage a bank account. It would not be ordinary if he wasn't an grownup. Colt and Debbie's dynamic did no longer lend a hand issues in Colt's tumultuous marriage to 90 Day Fiancé megastar Larissa Del Santos Lima.
90 Day Fiancé Fans Don't Understand Debbie And Colt's Relationship
Viewers have been introduced to Colt Johnson and his mother within the 6th season of 90 Day Fiancé. The mother-son duo was once thick as thieves and at first look, it appeared noble of Colt to are living with his elderly mother. However, it used to be simplest after his now ex-wife Larissa Del Santos Lima moved in with him and his mom that trouble began.
One Redditor weighed in saying, "Honestly, I'm not against Colt being close with his mother. At all. Even the scene in the most recent episode where Colt and Debbie were comforting each other, he was holding her face, shushing her, etc.... I'm not necessarily against this between a mother and a child, and I think it can be sweet. In this case, though, it felt disturbing."
Some 90 Day Fiancé viewers identified how Colt never showed an oz of comfort or affection for his ex-wife like he does his mother.
"I actually think that the reason WHY the Colt/Debbie relationship is not OK is because we never, ever, ever saw anything even close to this type of interaction between Colt and Larissa."
Colt and Debbie have many fans questioning whether or not they're on the fallacious display and must have gave the impression on Smothered instead.
"I'm certainly not defending any of Larissa's actions and have many criticisms of her, so this is not about her as a person -- but more so Colt's reactions to her. He did not share that same 'romance' with her in the sense that he did not try to comfort her at all."
Mother Debbie Strikes Again
It's pretty transparent that Debbie is overprotective of Colt and needs the most productive for him. However, they want to set healthy limitations and that means Debbie taking a step again to permit Colt to be an adult and make his own choices. Her constant meddling in his relationships put a halt on his love life.
Debbie did now not approve of Colt's ex-wife Larissa and surely does now not approve of his present girlfriend Jess Carolina both. In a recent episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? Colt traveled to Brazil to peer Jess and his mother decided to tag along. However, Debbie's dislike for Colt's female friend put a dumper of the young couple's romantic rendezvous.
From Colt booking one resort room for the 3 of them to Debbie slamming doorways and yelling because she hates her son's girlfriend, the mother-son duo's codependency is getting out of hand.
It turns out Colt realizes how unhealthy their dynamic is, he told producers, "I knew going into Brazil, my mother being there could jeopardize my relationship with Jess. And now she’s slamming doors, she’s yelling. And she’s just doing the same sh*t she did with Larissa."
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